My first piece of advice?

Do not date men with bigger boobs than you.

Many women aren't interested in men that are shorter than them. Some women won't date anyone who weighs less than them. This is understandable. Sometimes it can be hard to feel secure when you're a taller or larger woman relying on someone scrawny to protect you. That being said, the short and skinny are not my "do not cross" lines. But boobs are a literal do not cross line. Boobs get in the way. I don't want to get that first kiss, and realize our lips can't reach because his man-boobs are blocking my way to his lips.

Here's the thing though. Be willing to look past the rest of it. If I see a skinny man with gorgeous eyes and a great butt, I can't immediately pass him over. If I see a guy who has a giant, funny shaped nose, but he has amazing abs, I'm still willing to get to know him. Yes, physical intimacy is important, and being physically attracted to your partner is essential for that intimacy. But you can't lock out every potential partner just because he or she isn't you physical ideal. Most people have some attractive features. So my second piece of advice is this:

Don't be a shallow twat.

Know what you like in your partner. Know what you can't get past in a partner. Don't lower your standards, but open up your options.

Until next time,

Bridget